I have been trying to think of a way to show you examples of relationship issues that you can learn from. I finally came up with a solution. A long time ago, when I was studying to get into medical school, I had a roommate. He later met a girlfriend who liked to have the TV on so loud you could hear it anywhere in a 2-story condominium. I liked Fraser a lot and did not want to a
sk him to leave, so I tried to adapt. I did. I learned to get in the zone and study despite the noise.
The good news. The bad news is that now I do my best work when there is noise in the background. As a result, I now need TV in the background when working. Good for you though…and here is why.
I stream Youtube TV as of a couple of weeks ago and there are some TV shows that are so rich with relationship issues that they cannot be ignored. They are a great learning experience for you. If you have the time, I would recommend that you watch the following (in order of importance):
- 90 day fiance
- Below Deck
- Below Deck Mediterranean
- 90 day Fiance before the 90
- 90 day Fiance Happily Ever After
- Below Deck Sailing Yacht
If you watch some of the shows of each one, or keep them in the background, I will ask you ‘not’ to read my analysis until you have watched the show that I refer to. I will try to inform you of the show I will analyze before I discuss it. You will only learn if you watch if first, then analyze while watching, then read what I have to say.
If you simply watch a few episodes of each show you will get a ‘feel’ for the show and the persons in it. It will be easy for you to jump to another episode and understanding the dynamics. These are great opportunities for you to learn from: what to do, what not to do, what you do means to others….